'Kisi pagaal kavi ki kalpana go tum, khud ko bhool jau woh nasha ho tum'

'Chandi jaisa rang hai tera, sone jaise baal'

It's not tough to find phrases for admiring a woman's beauty. But it becomes a difficult road to travel when it comes to praise the beauty of a man.

Beauty is often associated with women. Many writers and poets have put their pens to define the same but do you think it's justified to relate it to women only, and ignoring men completely?

Have you ever kept gazing at a man? What did you look for at him at that moment or what made you do the same?


I asked the same in my surroundings and made this survey for my fellow friends here.

My survey was not limited or confined to my acquaintances. Rather, it seized the perspectives of a pretty large number. From elderly to teens, from single to engaged, everyone around was made part of this study.

The survey was wholeheartedly admired by people of all age groups and I was pretty happy to see when hesitations took a back seat, and teens didn't confine themselves due to their parent's presence. 

The elders were equally excited like their children, and I could observe the blushes on their faces as well. Everyone attempted to become a part of the survey.

Now, have a look at my findings and post your reviews on far do you agree with the same.

The bold didn't hesitate to agree with the sex appeal, some voted for those black, wild moustache. And, while others were confined to the dressing sense.

Some funny bones talked of the brilliant cooking skills of the man which can add to their lost beauty talks. To them, the world has changed so should the common proverb. 'The way to man's heart is through his stomach' should transform to 'To save a penny, tell the nanny to teach you gastronomy'.


The wisest debated for a wise man, and the easy-going went for those funny, loud laughs. The strong points were not easy to resist. A wise man can pass through the wildest tunnels of life. Whereas an easy-going will not consider any problem a problem but just another boat to ride it, or any other puzzle to solve.

The survey moved further, and it tempted many others to take part. Ladies and gals were getting curious and impatient to give their views. Not only females but also their better halves were taking part enthusiastically. After all, it was all about them.

Those who could bestow their time more than their money were found to be more in demand. Then, there was some old lady intervention. 'So, you gals want to spend life with a free person! Are you pretty sure to choose freeness over his money? Will it buy you luxuries?' And the debate which was about to close again aroused.

The teens opted for the tall, dark,  handsome while their parents preferred the guy with a handsome, and not a handful income.

The blushes, smiles, and even the boots were aspects of many, and a lot many counted honesty and decency as beauty.

Some debated for dialogue writers and poets, who could pamper them their whole life while a meager group found arrogance to be a part of a man's beauty.

The argument was taking turns and getting hotter too. I was thinking that this survey could never reach the finishing line. The definitions and preferences were taking seconds to change. And then, my mind clicked of a feature which nobody had talked about until now. Beautiful minds were not talked off.

Now, there were votings for a beautiful mind, for a beautiful mind resides in a beautiful body. 

The oldies we're regretting for not opting this feature. The teens agreed smilingly. Their content and happiness with the option was clearly visible.

 Eventually, it won over the sexiest body, the bold looks, the funny bones, the dressing sense, and many more.

I was glad to see my survey ending with a happy note. 

So, what do you look at in the man when it comes to his beauty? Do share your thoughts in the comment section and remember to press heart.

Happy Reading!

"I am not feeling good, Di. Something is not right", Suhana replied in low pitch.

"What is not right, Babes?", asked Suhana moving her hands in the air.

"That is not I am not able to figure out, Di", Rohini answered back.

"One sec. You dare not cancel this most awaited trip now. Everything is planned and packed. Don't you dare throw obstacles on the way now", Rohini spoke out in one go.

" But Di, listen to me, listen to me once. I just wanna to say that...", Suhana tried one last time but all in vain.

Rohini left the room, leaving a shocked and worried Suhana behind. She could smell the danger but was simply unable to figure it out.

She was feeling helpless. She could restrain herself from going on the trip but she was not that selfish to leave her family when she could smell the danger.

In a day, she boarded the train and then bus to catch the glimpse of the famous shrine, Kedarnath. 

She was getting more and more restless as the bus was progressing towards its desired destination. She didn't want to regret it later, and she finally confides it with her family.

She informed them about her instinct which she was feeling right from the beginning when the trip was finalized. As expected, no one believed her and missed any way to make fun of her. But Suhana was determined and became successful in convincing all to at least take a skip of one day, if not a cancellation.

To her joy and satisfaction, everyone agreed to camp on the riverside for a day. The decision borough about temporary relief for Suhana.

Just then when the family was camping and chilling, they saw a landslide, followed by the whole bus drowning in the water with the passengers boarded in it within a fraction of seconds.

The sight was too horrifying to give chills and goosebumps to all. Nobody could utter a single word. The scenario became permanent in the eyes of the audience for the next few days.

Many incidences of floods and landslides followed later on. Thousand of innocent lives were lost, many were left homeless. Screams and cries followed for months.

Suhana was not happy to see the sights but was satisfied to see her family alive. Rohini could, at last, believe her sister now, and feeling sorry to not believe her from the very beginning.

Suhana's family was thankful to her, as later saved her from the disaster in the last minutes.

Suhana's instinct saved herself and her family. It was her senses that smelled something is not going to be right. It was her sixth sense which took a turn and warned her of the danger ahead.

It's not always that the sixth sense gives a bad signal. They can give good indications too. The thing is to understand them.

The sixth sense shows presence in every human. But some may understand it. Some only ignore it and regret it later.

To make full use of the sixth sense, one must maintain a proper calendar and note down intervals of feeling the same. One should not ignore it to make its full utilization. Who knows, it may save life.

To sum up,

not all things are the subject of science. Some questions are now also unanswered. Some are still left at nature's mercy.